Still, you might decide that this guy is worth the risk, take a leap of faith and hope for the best. Everyone makes mistakes and while this one sucks, it might be unfair to judge him on his past. No excuse is good enough. Listen to the way he talks about his screw-up. In my experience, guys who cheat are quick to make excuses.
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As in, I'm not a serial cheater: I'm a mono-cheater. Is that a term? Yes, you read that correctly: When you think about it, this makes sense because, as it turns out, hopeless romantics are really just commitment-phobes.
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I sat down with a few men, whose names have been changed to protect their privacy, to find out. Each of these guys have a history of cheating, and are currently in relationships where they have remained monogamous and claim they will continue to do so. Take Charles, for example. Charles had a serious girlfriend in college but she went to another school, so they tried to maintain a long-distance relationship. She knew he might get tempted to hook up with other women so she did something a bit unusual:
Sign up or log in to share. I can't judge you because I've been with dumbass guys in the past but reading this infuriated me because you sound a lot like I used to. It sounds like you're making excuses for him and trying to justify his past. You shouldn't have to do that.