When I was in my second year of university, a stranger approached a friend and me on the streets of Melbourne, asking to photograph us for his website about interracial couples. A little taken aback, we told him we weren't together but had friends that might fit the bill. He went on to explain that many of his friends were Asian men who thought Anglo-Australian women just weren't interested in dating them. His website was his way of showing this wasn't true. After a fittingly awkward goodbye, I never saw that man or, concerningly, his website again, but the unusual encounter stayed with me.
When Asian Women Are Harassed for Marrying Non-Asian Men
Sexual racism - Wikipedia
Sexual racism is the individual's sexual preference of specific races. It is an inclination towards potential sexual or romantic partners on the basis of perceived racial identity. Although discrimination among partners based on this perceived racial identity is characterized by some as a form of racism, it is presented as a matter of preference by others. Attitudes towards interracial relationships, and indeed marriage, have increased in positivity in the last 50 years.
The Public and Private Sides of Ethnicity
The men who harass me know three things: You hate Asian men, they insist; you hate your own child. You hate yourself. I save these messages in a folder on my computer to document the abuse. Whenever I upgrade my laptop, I copy them over, little packets of poison I must keep and carry forever.
While Asian women are increasingly courted, their male counterparts seem to be shunned. In a study conducted by Columbia University, researchers surveyed more than students white speed dating sessions. Dr Janet Hall, Clinical Psychologist, says these superficial stereotypes are reinforced in popular culture.