She used to have a libido that matched or even surpassed yours , and now it seems she has no interest at all. You expected there to be some decline with time, but not like this! The rational part of you understands and recognizes that she's under more stress now. Her job is more demanding, the kids are older and involved in activities that require a lot more time and, yes, she's getting older.
4 Simple Ways To Get Your Wife In The Mood
Not tonight dear- My wife is never in the mood - Evewoman
Sexual Healing: Are your beliefs getting in the way of intimacy? Dear Eve, It has become hard to understand my wife as she is never in the mood of getting intimate, we are generally a happy couple but in the bedroom things have deteriorated over time. However, I appreciate that instead of giving up in frustration, you have chosen to seek a solution. I have a few ideas to share with you but remember these are simply ideas; without knowing your wife, it would be difficult to give you a specific answer. However, they are intended to trigger some of your own thoughts, ideas and insights into the situation and how to handle it. One of the first things I would want to know is her health and well-being, in and out of the bedroom.
Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. Hey guys. I am hoping I am not the only guy in this boat We are still relatively young I am 30 and she is 29 and we have been married 4 years, been together about ten. We used to have a pretty active sex life but it has gone dormant since we had kids about 3 years ago.
Touch your skin to her skin in unusual and different ways. For example, while facing your wife, connect the area between your wrist and your elbow to that same area on her and just hold the connection for several seconds and look at her arm s. When you're tired and ready for YOU time and just don't feel like giving any more to any one else then go ahead and summon up enough extra energy to connect with your wife in a non-sexual way. Tell her that that you are exhausted and tired but that she is such a pleasure and a joy to you that you just have to bask in the sunshine of her presence for the next 15 - 30 minutes - but that she needs to turn her "sun" down a little lest she "rejuvenate" you to the point she turns you into a sex-maniac.